Look around you. Yes, right this moment. Do you see any living human being in your general area? If you are at work (are you really suppose to be reading someone’s blog while the boss is paying you?) do you see a co-worker? If you are at home, do you see family? Ask yourself, what can I do to spread a little HAPPY?
I keep repeating myself over and over……….didn’t their mom ever teach them? Okay, so if your mom was teaching you and you were tuning her out, I am happy to share a couple of words of wisdom.
You are an amazing person, we all are. We just need to polish the apple, so to speak. We need to think of others a bit more often.
One of the reasons you were put on this earth was to lift spirits. Yes, you read that correctly. No, you are not in charge of others happiness. You are in charge of your own. One of the ways to make yourself a bit more happy is to share that HAPPY with others.
“Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself. ” Ralph Waldo Emerson
Back in 1979, I gave an outdoor speech to about 200 people. I used Ralph’s line. Thanks Ralph! What the heck did I know about sharing happiness with others? I was flying through my speech and remembering planned gestures, I am not sure I really understood what I was spouting. Okay, so maybe I did get “it” slightly. I had figured out that being nice to others makes us happy and it is the right thing to do.
Everyone reminds me that they are “busy”. They work. Okay, heads up sweet friends, once and for all………..we ALL WORK! Each one of us. We cook and bake gourmet dog treats and type and sing and mow lawns and push papers around and fix boo boos ( with a kiss and a band-aid or with surgical instruments and stitches), we put squiggly lines and splashes of color on canvas. We all work. There that is said and done.
Now, for the extra hours in our lives. Yes, do the math. If we each work 40 hours a week, plus 56 hours of sleeping time…………. um, that leaves………72 hours to do with what you please. Oh sure, some of you are going to tell me you commute or you have to volunteer 4 hours a week or you have to grocery shop for 2 hours a week………………….What are you doing with the other 51 hours a week????????????
Do yourself a favor and make someone happy. Make yourself happy. Do something for your better half. Make him or her a loaf of home-made bread. (heads up, the recipe makes two loaves, give the other loaf to a neighbor or co-worker) Iron one of their shirts while you are ironing yours. Leave the car full of gas next time you use it. Buy one fresh grapefruit and cut it up ready to go for tomorrow’s breakfast.
Let me ask you, just how happy would you be if you started off the day with a fresh 1/2 a grapefruit already cut and ready to eat?
While the potatoes are cooking for dinner, you have time to think of someone else. While you wait for the laundry to finish drying, you can make a card.
You can start a batch of cookies to share with your family and a little plate full for the co-worker in the cubical next to you.
Seriously, I timed myself. Yesterday, took me 41 minutes to cut out and sew a bib. I wrapped it up and tied a tag on it . No, you don’t have to spend $4.00 on a card. A happy little polka dot tag with the words, “CONGRATULATIONS on your HAPPY” will do nicely. Secret: I keep fusible fleece on hand. I cut out two at a time, always. I keep a steady supply of HAPPY fabrics to make a bib. So no, I don’t have to drive to the store every time I want to share a sweet bit of happy.
It made me happy to sew the bib. It will make the parents to be, silly with happy. It will make them happy one day when they actually use the bib. It will make someone happy to see the little babe in the bib, maybe in a picture. That folks, is a WHOLE LOT of HAPPY for 41 minutes of time and a few pieces of fabric.
May I gently suggest, you do yourself a favor? Look for ways to make someone else happy. It doesn’t have to cost oodles. It can be quick and easy.
It is the right thing to do. Getting a little happy on yourself? Well, that just happens to be a happy by-product.
Go ahead, YOU ARE WORTH HAPPY!
Your mother did indeed teach you to think of others every single day. Maybe you had head phones on and missed it?
You deserve to be happy. We each thrive on it.
Get out there kind people and make your day sweeter.
OH, Happy Day!