ahoy, happiness ahead

happiness

Yikes, what if that statement is true?? 

Boy howdy, have you shared any of your happy lately?  If not, time is of the essence friends.

Oh, my stars, what if our HAPPY is ONLY real if we figure out ways to share it?

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By sending a card with a printed snapshot to friends and family far away, we shared our happiness about becoming grandparents for the FOURTH time!!!!  (Yes, yes, the parents send out announcement cards with all the proper details.)

Grandparents don’t have any etiquette rules, we can just simply send cards of happiness.

We sent out cards to share the HAPPY!

For friends, family and co-workers that live nearby, we gave out cookies!  96 bags of HAPPINESS!

*(I know, you can’t have wheat, you can’t have sugar, you can’t have chemicals, you can’t have food colorings…..duh, neither can I.)  It’s about sharing the happy, folks.  You don’t have to actually eat them.  geesh.  It’s just for fun.  It’s just for the HAPPY!

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We gave out cookies to share the HAPPY!

I’m guessing you are a smarty pants and have figured out creative ways to share your Happy?

Do you look for happy and come up with clever ways to share it?

Do you send silly postcards from your vacation to share the happy? IMG_2395_resized_1

Please, please leave a comment and tell us all how you share your happy?  We are all in search of creative ways to make the happy real.  Please tell me that there are still folks that share the happy?

1+1+1+1 grands = Happy, Happy, Happy, Happy grandparents!

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In this together, friends,

Just sharing the Happy!

Chat soon.

 

and then there were 4

Hello friends,

Boy Howdy, do I have news!

I’ve told just about everyone I have come across.  I told the lady at the fabric store, the clerk at the supermarket, the hostess at the restaurant, a man in the elevator.  I told the morning and night managers at our hotel.  I told a lady at an information center.  I explained our new happy to the lady at the needlework shop.  I told the gal at the gift shop.  Pretty much anyone standing still, I shared our HAPPY with! I’ve sent text messages, made phone calls and sent emails.

Of course, I wanted to share with you, too.

We got to meet our FOURTH grandchild! 

This Granny and Grandpa just returned from a 2, 500-mile adventure.   We were on a mission as someone was waiting for us.20180523_125646-2_resized_1

His name is Hunter and he is the calmest, content, most relaxed, healthy 10.2-pound 20180524_121059_resizedbaby I know. 20180522_120827_resized

It was thrilling to meet him.

I said, “Hi, I’m Grandma Daleen.  You have no idea just how good I am at loving and spoiling grands.”   We were off to a great start.  I think he likes me!!!!

 

 

 

The week flew by.  Our 3-year-old grandson kept us on our toes and toes in the air, too.

 

 

 

While there, we played Candyland, Shoots, and Ladders, Hungry Hungry Hippo, cards, did a puzzle, played with matchbox cars and Legos. We read books, books, and more books and played at the park.  We played Mini Golf.  Much to their parents’ dismay, we gave daily gifts. Happily gave too many gifts.  Went to the beach and of course, ate Frozen Yogurt. Lots of frozen yogurt!

 

 

 

We are very grateful for this HAPPY life.

I wanted to share our HAPPY with you.

 

Dew Drop Inn

Our daughter-in-law sadly had to go out-of-town for her very ill grandparents.  Our son was left in charge of the grandgirlies.

Thought I would share some goodness & a couple of photos.  Here is what our oldest (Dustin J. A. Wilson) had to say…

Pour a coke, sit back and enjoy.

 

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smooth Friday

Hello and Happy Friday!

I wanted to share a helpful, easy, “you will thank me by next Thursday” tip.

20180212_135712_resizedWhen you fill up your refrigerators and freezers this weekend, might I gently suggest you make 7 or 8 smoothie packets at the same time?

Super easy.

A beautiful way to bathe yourself in Grace and Wellness.

Bring home your greens and wash.  (Yes, even the greens in the bags.)  I wash with vinegar then rinse with water. Then I dry/spin the whole bunch in a salad spinner.  You could easily use paper towels or a clean cotton towel.   Vinegar is inexpensive and best part ….. it really works.20180212_135312_resized

We froze oodles and oodles of berries last year, so I am still working off of those.  Or you can purchase frozen berries.

Now, get out 7 or more zip freezer bags.  Roll down the tops.  Set up an assembly line of sorts.

(I use these amounts for one smoothie, you can certainly double or so forth the recipe for more.)

20180212_135415-1_resizedAdd one cup of clean, dry spinach or Swiss chard or bok choy or kale or a combination of greens to each zippy bag.  Then I add one cup of a variety of berries.  Sometimes, I toss in half a banana.  Add anything else you want.   The sky is the limit.  Toss in a handful of chopped up peaches or apricots!   (some weeks I do a tropical take on the smoothie….pineapple, mango, strawberry, lime) 20180212_135719-1_resized_1

Actually, next time you are at your specialty health food store and you “treat” yourself to a $6.00 smoothie, jot down the ingredients that you fancy in your favorite option.  Then re-create in your homemade freezer packs.

The idea is to create these helpful, beautiful packets that will help you make a smoothie quick and easy and almost effortless.20180212_135305-1_resized

That way, you can add your liquid, fresh coconut pulp, ground flax seeds, etc. and toss in your bag of frozen goodness.  40 seconds of blending later, you are enjoying a great smoothie.  Little effort to create something wonderful.  Fast and hits the spot.

Refreshing.

Perfect to drink on the way to work.   Perfect to drink on the way to take care of your grand for the day.  Perfect to drink while you decide if you want something more for lunch.

Just think of all the good you will be doing to your body?  One cup of berries a day times five days a week times each month.   Woah, Nelly!  That is a bucket full of antioxidants!  

Berries are some of the most powerful (and delicious) disease-fighting foods available. Color pigments in berries that are powerful antioxidants. Blue, purple, and red color have been associated with a lower risk of certain cancers, urinary tract health, memory function, and healthy aging.

20180209_132104-1_resized_3In this together, friends.

(next Thursday, when you take out a frozen zippy bag and make an amazing smoothie, send me an email.  I promise you, you will be so happy that you took the time to make something good for you!)

Here’s to our wellness and good health!

Cheers!

 

Oh, Happy Day!

Can you feel it?  The special sparkle in the air?  The deep rumble of the very beginnings of giddiness?

Me Too!

Happy Groundhog Day!  You party animal, you!ground hog day

Happy One Year learning to crochet day for me! FB_IMG_1517584163018_resized

Is it me, or would that groundhog look downright adorable in the first crocheted hat I ever made?

Good golly we have a lot to be happy about.  The festive music is LOUD here in my dining room.  The food is being set out.  You can feel the excitement building.

Here is a fun fact about groundhogs: They are the same thing as woodchucks. If you knew this already, it seems laughably obvious. If you didn’t, your mind may be blown a little. It’s never too late to learn things.

As I type this, it is only 6:57am  the day is already off to a happy note.  Nice.

Okay, to celebrate this wild, festive day… I thought I would share one new favorite thing.  Less than $10.00, extremely easy to use and it WORKS!

You know how you draw a bath, you have the temperature just right, then after a while, the water level goes down, the water you have left is getting colder by the minute?

This gadget solves those issues.  The suction cups hold it in place over the overflow drain. 20180125_081841-1_resizedNow I know this is a first world “problem”.  Gee, I wonder how I can get the bubble bath in my beautiful jacuzzi to stay warm?  Yet, I am just so darn tickled with this common sense gadget I felt compelled to share!  You’re welcome!

See your day is already better because you learned some new stuff and it isn’t even lunchtime.  Just imagine what we will learn the rest of this exciting day??

 

Here’s to going out today and finding some HAPPY!

Happy Friday, Y’all.

In this together,

Chat soon.

 

six

six

My six year blogging anniversary is today!

Oh Good Gravy, how on earth did that happen?

1,155 blog posts?

Who knew I had so much to talk about?

Will I find something more to talk/chat about for another year?

Topics to consider:

backward booksLately, why do home decorators put all the books on the shelf backward?  Yes, I know they want a uniform color.  Don’t these people read?  How tricky/frustrating would it be to pull out each book to find the book you want? (Melvil Dewey would be spinning if he saw this.)

 

 

Will my Insanely Good Bacon made from  Rice rice paper baconPaper turn out ….insanely good for dinner tonight?

 

 

boy or girlWill I be crocheting pink or blue hats for our new grand in 2018?

Thanks and gratitude to all of you for following along, leaving such kind comments and pushing my swing.

Think I will stick around a bit longer, ’cause you KNOW I will have something to say about something.

In this together, friend,

Chat soon

I forgot angels baked cookies

Yesterday, 4 years and 11 months, ago I was diagnosed with cancer.

I was told that I had one year to live if I didn’t do as they told me.   big sigh.

I did not forget the day, nor have I been able to go a day and not know what the tally is.

I have dabbled, sharing my story here and there over the almost five years.

20151206_182052_resizedFor some reason, yesterday, was a tough day. Then I put on a cute & sassy pair of big girl panties, extra jewelry, beautiful lipstick, kick-ass red cowgirl boots, asked Alexa to turn on some music and just like that, the day, as well as my outlook, changed dramatically.

Sometimes I can be a dunderhead and forget to put “it” out there for the universe to handle.

I can sum up the last few years with one sentence.

I chose the road less traveled.

I made the choice to respectfully and quietly decline the offer of chemotherapy and radiation.

(very important side note:  those souls who choose chemotherapy & radiation and live, are amazing.  When 97.3% of the time, it doesn’t work, those folks walking among us are astonishing.  Tip your hat to them for what they have endured.  They are living miracles.)

Having cancer is tricky, harsh, brutal, crappy, awful, LOUD, difficult, lonely and surprisingly, takes away your breath, some of your courage and brave people skills.

Two roads diverged in a wood and I – I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. Robert Frostroad-less-travelled-lg

The thing about Robert Frost’s quote is that while being true words, he doesn’t mention how dark, scary, lonely, quiet, and not fancy that road is.

On one hand, frightening and unknown, pink ribbons, goodie bags of spirit-lifting lipstick, pink boas, friends rallying around, pins, hats, walk-a-thons, embroidered vests, support groups, a very clear, mapped out route awaits.

The other choice was an equally frightening unknown, however dimly lit path, with Mr. Right and I holding neon yellow high lighter pens for research & studying and gallons of green juice with a couple of folks in your corner.  Sort of a bizarre version of a sad, dull, blush colored lipstick, sad face “before” picture you see in fashion magazine layouts.

I get it.  It is scary.

In the beginning of the journey, I was heartbroken when “friends” jumped ship. Others politely & quietly moved to the other side, no big break-up, just quietly faded out of the picture.   I was crushed when some relatives thought my choices were ridiculous & uninformed and chatted behind my back.   I won’t even go into the mean & hateful things some of my doctors & medical staff said to us. Certainly not worth my breath to repeat.

While trying to re-build my broken immune system (yes, every single person with disease has a broken, damaged immune system) for quite some time I stayed away from groups of germs people.   Extremely limiting gatherings, extracurricular groups, church, outings, movie theaters, planes, etc.  Lonely during the days until Mr. Right came home from work.

Enter social media and technology.  Figuring out a way to make new friends through the world-wide webs.

Holy Toledo, because of this blog, I met a new friend and have what is shaping up to be a forever friendship. I’ve reconnected with friends from elementary school.  I even put on my brave lion mask and wrote to folks in an online counted cross stitch group.

A couple of months ago, while sounding rather juvenile, I excitedly told Mr. Right, I met a new friend.

For some unexplained reason, I jumped in with both feet. I felt brave and saucy.  I can’t explain the bravery.  Maybe an angel was nudging me in that direction?

I forgot.

I forgot how lovely it feels to have someone visit and talk and not feel sorry for you.  I forgot how wonderful it feels to relax and just write for fun.  I forgot how it feels to be curious about another person and ask questions and listen for answers.  I forgot how much fun it is to plot and figure out a surprise gift to give to someone else.  I forgot how satisfying it feels to make something for someone who understands handmade presents.

I also forgot how gobsmacked it feels to get an unexpected box of pure HAPPY in the 20171221_153135-1_resizedmail!  I forgot how flabbergasted I am when someone makes me something.  Believe it or not, it left me speechless (for a moment).  Cookies and treats and stitchy stuff (HUGE shock, no one has ever bought me stitchy stuff) and paper and ribbon and a hilarious card…. oh Lordy, get out the smelling salts.  

I had completely forgotten that when some folks jump ship, it just leaves room for new friends to jump aboard.

angel wingsI am here to tell you that angels walk among us. When you least expect it and need it most.

Fierce angels wearing bad-ass, fancy, insanely large, Victoria’s’ Secret kind of over the top wings.  They bravely wear juicy, saturated intense color lipstick, bake cookies20171222_114143-1_resized and wear glorious shoes we all drool for.

My fierce angel has glorious dark curly hair, wears amazing lipstick and has red pointy toe shoes with glorious big bows on them that I covet. However, in my mind, even to work, she wears fancy aqua colored wings.

In an effort to help me sleep through the night,  I began writing this blog 1,152 posts ago.

This installment will most assuredly help me sleep through tonight.   Lots of good, some bad all removed from my shoulders and put here for safe keeping.

Thanks oodles for listening to me, holding my hand, keeping me company, leaving kind & uplifting comments.  Such sweetness pushes my swing.

Today, I am mighty grateful that angels do indeed bake cookies. Delicious & beautiful cookies.

Here’s hoping that you are happily and surprisingly gobsmacked by a fierce and amazing angel in your corner. One that bakes cookies.   Once you catch your breath and stop feeling light-headed, it is a rather lovely feeling.

In this together, friends,

Chat soon